More than Silence at Ground Zero

Posted on September 11, 2013 by cchrisholland

Today, with a moment of silence our country remembers the terrible events of 9/11 in Manhattan, DC and Pennsylvania. I understand the reasons for generic “silence” and appreciate it being included, but what if there’s more? What if God is speaking? Can we hear Him through the silence?

A few weeks ago, some friends and I visited Ground Zero in New York. It was a sobering experience to see where it happened and yes, there was a lot of silence. People of all descriptions quietly viewed the memorial pools and displays. As I walked around pondering it all, there was a question on my mind, “What have we learned from this?” I thought of how we were reminded on that tragic day years ago of life’s most treasured things, resulting in our priorities changing as a people. However, over time we slowly slipped back into celebrity worship, status updates and distractions…and I started to feel depressed. That’s when I saw it.

For some reason, while standing by one of the trees on the site (with those thoughts literally on my mind), I looked up and noticed a huge rainbow. It wasn’t just a rainbow in the distance; it was horizontal over us like a circular statement echoing 9-11-Rainbowback to Genesis 9. I could sense in my spirit, God’s reassuring presence and Him saying, “Relax, I’m still in charge as always.” Man, I’m glad He is. I get frustrated, worried and angry when it comes to culture and national direction, but I must let those emotions go. God is still very much in charge and true hope is only found in Him. The Psalmist said it best and we can take comfort in these great words of promise:

“Behold the eye of the Lord is on those who fear Him, on those who hope in His mercy, to deliver their soul from death, and to keep them alive in famine. Our soul waits for the Lord; He is our help and our shield. For our heart shall rejoice in Him, because we have trusted in His holy name. Let Your mercy, O Lord, be upon us, just as we hope in You.”
– Psalm 33:18-22 NKJV

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Hot on Sunday, Cold on Monday

Posted on September 5, 2013 by cchrisholland

As I’m preparing to lead small group discussions this week (using The Gospel Project material), I’m pondering a principle that helps me visualize properly relating to people. Whether it’s personal, professional, or in small group; there are some interesting applications. Here’s what I’m learning:

The Principle: When engaging people, I’m faced with a choice to be a “thermometer” or “thermostat”. As a thermometer, I simply reflect the temperature of the other person and/or the environment I’m in. As a thermostat, I help set the temperature of the environment and/or the tone of the conversation.

In Jeremiah 9:24, the Lord describes the tone that He sets when dealing with us, “…showing faithful love, justice, and righteousness.” He even goes on to say that He “delights in those things”. When we consider God’s words to Jeremiah, along with Jesus teaching us to love others as ourselves (Matt. 22:36-40), then it’s clear; we’re to be “thermostats” not “thermometers”. So what does that look like exactly?

Being Proactive – Lazy Christians are likely to be thermometers. For years I didn’t understand how someone could be so fired up on Sunday and then be cold on Monday. Yes, sometimes it’s from not having a relationship with Christ to begin with, but other times it comes from a spiritual life that only reflects the surrounding environment, not one helping set it. Hey, to be honest, I have my share of thermometer moments, but being proactive in prayer/personal study helps lessen the number of them.

Proper Focus – I must remember to look in the right direction. It’s easy to focus on the person and rationalize my response, instead of looking at God’s model toward me. Whether it’s very personal, (in our home) or out-and-about in work and community; a smile, a kind word, or proactive measures to defuse conflict can often change a situation for the better and even open up doors for deeper conversation.

Realistic Expectations – Quite often, striving to be the thermostat goes against the flow. Come to think of it, every time the thermostat in our house kicks in for the heating/air conditioning, it’s because the temperature needs adjusted. It’s either too hot or too cold, so by default its purpose is to implement change when needed. As followers of Christ, that’s our job too; to be change-agents bearing Christ’s love and values. Will we always be welcomed? No. Is it worth the pursuit? Absolutely!

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What a Starbucks Mistake says about the Daily Grind

Posted on August 15, 2013 by cchrisholland

I love coffee, but I’m not a big fan of Starbucks (even though I’ve waded through crowds slurping frap-a-shakes to get a cup before). However, they have a lot of experience in the coffee biz and I’m continuing to learn from a corporate misstep they made. It’s a tidbit I’ve shared a few times, so if you have a minute, let’s brew-up a thought together.

Several years ago while evaluating a logistics change to improve quality control, it became clear the store experience was negatively impacted (the dreaded unintended consequence). They had started centrally grinding the coffee beans, vacuum sealing the grounds, and shipping them to each location. Unfortunately, in the process a precious element was eliminated-the glorious smell of the grinding action in the stores. Yep, that wonderful inviting aroma (which even non-coffee-drinkers enjoy) was missing; so they made the change back to locally preparing the beans. Here’s what I’m learning from their snafu:

In 2 Corinthians 2:12-17 Paul describes believers as the “aroma of Christ” with word pictures of “Roman Triumph” (parades honoring great generals coming back from foreign battle). In it, a procession wound through Rome to the Coliseum with the General up front, and captured enemy walking behind. Among them, priests would carry burning incense to fill the entire route with the fragrance of victory. So what does that mean for us? Do we need to fire up the incense and get some smoke going? No, for us it comes from the grind…the daily grind of life happening while the Holy Spirit works …but there are challenges.

  • Challenges from within: I need to be honest about my faith journey and the struggles it produces. The world around me doesn’t need a fake plastic Christian or a self-loathing defeatist; it needs the honesty of one who’s found hope in a victorious King while growing daily. There are endless places for that aroma to have an impact: such as family, vocation and community.
  • Challenges from without: The world offers many distractions. As followers of Christ, we’re told to avoid the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes and the pride of life (1 John 2:15-17). If my life “smells” the same as an unbelieving neighbor, then I’m a coffee shop missing the expected essence of fresh grind.
  • Challenges from church: As church leaders, we can unintentionally push the “central grind” mentality. We focus a lot on creating the right atmosphere for worship or study, but the power of God can’t be packaged for later convenience…it’s a daily thing. We must biblically equip folks to be fresh-ground aroma at work, school or ballgames as a result of personal growth and the Holy Spirit working. 

So, next time you see their familiar green symbol, think of the aroma; it’s not by accident, it’s part of the process. What about you?

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“OK, Who Trashed the Living Room?”

Posted on August 6, 2013 by cchrisholland

 

“What a mess!” Those words were my first thought when I noticed the clutter scattered around the living room. No, not the space in our home with the TV, but the one that’s more personal. I mean the living space of my heart where thoughts are formed and attitudes are developed. It’s the room I know well, but others don’t…except for the Lord, and He wants me to join Him in a daily walk-through. Here’s how it works. 

Each day in prayer, I need to spend a few moments considering the room (especially the corners). To be honest, early on I thought someone had been sneaking in and leaving stuff (like worn-out furniture that mysteriously shows up “donated” to the church). Next, I found occasion to blame unwanted attitudes on someone else’s sin (like a stranger had walked through and tracked mud on the carpet). Then finally I realized the space in question was my responsibility, not others’, and that the mess was my own.  

So, what’s the status of your “living room”? Perhaps you’ve never trusted Christ, and your walk-through needs a beginning. If so, you can do that right now by admitting your need for Jesus’ forgiveness, asking Him to change your heart and committing to follow Him as Lord of your life. For those of us who know Christ already, daily “room prep” is an essential part of living victoriously. Here are three points to help with the process: 

  • The Searching – start the process with an honest, prayerful evaluation: 

“Search me, O God and know my heart; test me and know my concerns.

See if there is any offensive way in me; lead me in the everlasting way.” – Psalm 139:23-24 HCSB 

  • The Cleaning – be willing to admit the need for God’s help even in the small things, and live in the grace of being forgiven:

“If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” – 1 John 1:9 NKJV

  • The Refreshing – Last, but not least; after dealing with the dirt and litter, let the Holy Spirit create the right atmosphere for a God-honoring day: 

“Finally brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure,

whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable-if there is any moral excellence

and if there is any praise-dwell on these things.”  – Philippians 4:8 HCSB

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Is “Man of Steel” a Christian Film?

Posted on July 31, 2013 by cchrisholland

In recent weeks, several articles have suggested the new Superman reboot titled “Man of Steel” has Christian overtones (including some of the studio’s own marketing efforts). After seeing the film, I can see where it comes from, (although not exactly C. S. Lewis type allegory either). However, it does raise a great question, “Can there be eternal value in discussing movies, etc.?” I think there can be.

For example, last weekend our son was watching Star Wars-Episode 6 when a neighborhood friend of his came in and sat down. He’d seen the movie before, but this time when Anakin Skywalker (aka Darth Vader) is dying (while talking to his son Luke Skywalker), the friend asked, “Why does he want to take the helmet off and talk to Luke?” With that question, suddenly a golden teachable moment appeared. Knowing the story line, I explained that Anakin’s remorse for choosing “the dark side of the force” was a big deal and he needed to verbalize it to his son. Choices matter and it was a great moment to reinforce the concept (then they were quickly out the door to ride bikes of course!).

Since then, I’ve been thinking about the “Anakin conversation” and here are a few things I’m trying to remember as opportunities arise:

  • To speak the language – It’s always important to construct and temper phrases based on the audience. I’m learning that people often hear me different than I think they do because they’re receiving my words through their life-experience filter and readiness level.
  • To not be a Christian “Moron” – In Romans 1:22 Paul says people chose to become fools (or the Greek word “moros”, translated “moron” in English) by professing to be wise. The last thing the world needs is another philosopher trying to adjust the narrative of scripture to fit worldly concepts. I want to be committed to framing conversations within the truth of the Bible and what it reveals concerning the human heart.
  • To avoid “reaching” while tying secular to sacred – There’s novelty and usefulness in referencing pop-culture, but it should never be done in forced ways. Every time Jesus used cultural references, it was a natural fit into the conversation. I don’t want to be guilty of having a “polyester-suit mindset” while commenting on trendy things I have little knowledge of.

For the record, “Man of Steel” isn’t a Christian film, but it was entertaining and somewhere down the road there may be a teachable moment hidden too!

For an official review of the movie, click here.

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Memo: When Spiritual Fatigue Sets In

Posted on July 16, 2013 by cchrisholland

Note to SelfDo you ever feel weary? Tired in your spirit? Hear these encouraging words from someone who knew spiritual fatigue… 

“And let us not grow weary while doing good, for in due season we shall reap if we do not lose heart.” – Paul, writing to the believers in Galatia (Galatians 6:10) 

Can you sense the confidence that comes with the forward-looking promise to the ones who are faithful? 

Early this morning I gathered with some guys and we discussed this verse. It was so refreshing to consider the fruitful outcome of “hanging in there”. In previous verses (5:22-23), there’s a picture of the Holy Spirit producing fruit through us, (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control). That special fruit isn’t being held for a future picnic on the heavenly lawn, it’s for now. It’s for the mundane places of daily activity that seed-bearing fruit is intended to carry life.

So, if you feel like the only one trying to live faithfully in your office, shop, department, or family, remember: 

  • As fruit producers, Jesus said we’re the branches not the vine (John 15:5). Nutrition and refreshment come from Him alone, not from within us. We need regular replenishment through time with God and His word.
  • Getting together regularly with a few other believers helps us grow, while also being a source of encouragement. If you don’t have support in your life now, pray for God’s provision of some godly, growing friends.
  • “Don’t lose heart” – Since Jesus is “Lord of the Harvest” (Matt. 9:38), it’s His master gardening plan. Our part isn’t to make the seeds grow; it’s to faithfully cultivate and pray.
  • Lastly, “due season” may prove to come slower than hoped (with the results not readily seen), but it’s still a valid promise of fruit…in time.
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That Feeling of Being Stuck in Your Walk

Posted on July 11, 2013 by cchrisholland

Recently, I came across a devotional (that also happens to be today’s reading) from Oswald Chamber’s “My Utmost for His Highest” and if you ever feel “stuck” in your walk with Christ, consider the following paragraph:

“A saint is not to take the initiative toward self-realization, but toward knowing Jesus Christ. A spiritually vigorous saint never believes that his circumstances simply happen at random, nor does he ever think of his life as being divided into the secular and the sacred. He sees every situation in which he finds himself as the means of obtaining a greater knowledge of Jesus Christ, and he has an attitude of unrestrained abandon and total surrender about him. The Holy Spirit is determined that we will have the realization of Jesus Christ in every area of our lives, and He will bring us back to the same point over and over again until we do. Self-realization only leads to the glorification of good works, whereas a saint of God glorifies Jesus Christ through his good works.” – Oswald Chambers 7/11

I remember the first time I read those words and the impact they had on me. There was so much I needed to abandon in exchange for knowing Christ in the routine moments of daily life and it was such a breakthrough. Perhaps that’s you today. If you feel stuck, there’s great value in prayerfully pausing to reflect on “every-day-things”. A life spent “praying without ceasing” (1 Thess. 5:17) isn’t stumbling around with eyes closed, but a day-long conversation with God. It’s mentally listening, pondering, talking, and discussing. In that mindset; a trip to the grocery store feels different, a conversation with a waitress has meaning, work becomes a higher calling, and kingdom moments start appearing on the path…forward.

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Memo: As Culture Declines, Remember Elijah

Posted on June 26, 2013 by cchrisholland

If shell-shock is starting to set it from the endless bombardment on traditional values, then a brief newsreel from 1 Kings 19 may be helpful.

Elijah the Prophet was on the run. After a spectacular victory on Mt. Carmel against the prophets of Baal, Elijah found himself fleeing the wrath of King Ahab & Queen Jezebel. As he hid in a cave, a conversation takes place between him and God. Let’s zoom in and listen:

The LORD: “What are you doing here Elijah?”

Elijah: “I have been very zealous for the LORD God of hosts; for the children of Israel have forsaken Your covenant, torn down Your altars, and killed Your prophets with the sword. I alone am left; and they seek to take my life.”

Next: Powerful moments of strong wind, a mighty earthquake, and fire. After that…”a still small voice” repeating the question…

The LORD: “What are you doing here Elijah?”

Elijah: “I have been very zealous for the LORD God of hosts; for the children of Israel have forsaken Your covenant, torn down Your altars, and killed Your prophets with the sword. I alone am left; and they seek to take my life.”

Next: The LORD gave Elijah instructions concerning his successor Elisha, then identifies Israel’s new king-Jehu, and finishes with these encouraging words…

The LORD: “Yet I have reserved seven thousand in Israel, all whose knees have not bowed to Baal, and every mouth that has not kissed him.”

Reminder: When the cultural tide feels like a vortex, be encouraged:

  • There are other followers of Christ who feel the weight of what’s happening, are committed to truth and are praying.
  • God is fully aware of current events and the motives of those involved.
  • Appearance of victory by those who mock God shouldn’t weaken our trust in His sovereignty.
  • Time and circumstances never diminish the strength of God’s promises.
  • Jesus still changes lives EVERY day and it’s an honor to be asked by Him to carry that powerful message to a world that desperately needs it.

Action steps: Walk out of the cave, sense the awesome presence of God, listen for the “still small voice” and carry-on!

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How about “Man-up Day” instead of “Father’s Day”?

Posted on June 11, 2013 by cchrisholland

ENDANGERED SPECIES: Real Men

While contemplating “Father’s Day” this year, I’ve been reflecting on what constitutes a “real man”…and sadly they’re becoming rare qualities. Today the media norm seems to be examples of “testosterone-deprived-pansies”, “crude-sexist-thugs”, or “bumbling-idiotic-slobs”; all of which reflect the image of something less than what God intended. So this year, I want to issue a challenge for us Dad’s to consider five basic qualities. Yeah there are more, but for 2013, how about we start with these:

  • Hard Work-In our role as family leader, it’s important to model an attitude of doing things “heartily, as to the Lord and not men.” (Col. 3:23). God designed us to work and have purpose (even before Adam sinned-Gen. 2:15). Our children need to know that we’re thankful for the chance to be productive. Naturally, there needs to be balance between work and family, but instilling a proper work ethic is part of our job (and hitting that “honey-do” list is good too).
  • Keeping Promises-We should be men of our word. A man’s commitment to something should carry weight and the small things matter. Be careful about over-committing (that takes guts sometimes), but when you do, dig your teeth in like a hungry bulldog and don’t let go.
  • Taking Responsibility-This one spills over into pride and can be tough. Words like “I’m sorry about…” or “I’m the one that…” taste terrible, but usually produce healthy results down the road. As the leader, it’s up to me to show a pattern of holding myself accountable for my own actions before I take someone else to task for theirs.
  • Speaking Truth-Speaking the truth will often have a cost attached. It may be a monetary cost or personal, but in the end a real man should always speak truth. When compromise is calling, listen closely for the still small voice of truth and stand on it.
  • Showing Love-As a Dad, I need to not only tell my family I love them, I need to demonstrate it too. There is nothing like a firm hug from Dad. As a grown man, I still appreciate a hug from mine and I hope my kids will always feel the same way too.

So what do you think? This year, let’s mark the day with a new commitment to be the men God has designed us to be. Yes, there will be days when we mess up, but if our trust is in Christ we have the truth of Phil. 4:13 to empower us:

“I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”

Let’s do this thing…let’s man-up and be the men our families need us to be and show the world what a real man looks like…

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Great Stuff to Pray for your Children and Others you Love

Posted on June 5, 2013 by cchrisholland

Ever worry about your kids or someone you’ve invested in spiritually? Maybe you’ve experienced the nagging feeling of nervousness about their decision-making and choices? I have (and to be honest, will continue to wrestle with it as our kids get older), but I noticed something in scripture today that encouraged me and thought worth passing along.

In Paul’s letter to the Christians who lived in Ephesus, we have a model of something that’s both personal and powerful. He reminds them of awesome benefits they already had in Christ (1:3-14); followed by a heart-felt desire for them to receive in Christ (17-23). It’s like truth on a hinge, pivoting during verses 15-16 as he moves to what he’s praying on their behalf.

To be clear, our first priority is praying for them to trust Christ as Savior. Once they’ve made that decision, we should continue to pray daily for their maturity. As we do, here are the points Paul makes and some things we can breathe in prayer for those we love:

In Christ, he reminded them they were:

  • Recipients of every spiritual blessing (v.3)
  • Foreknown by Christ (v.4)
  • Adopted according to His will (v.5)
  • Accepted in Christ (v.6)
  • Redeemed (v.7)
  • Forgiven (v.7)
  • Rich in His grace (v.7)
  • Guaranteed an inheritance (v.11 & 14)
  • Sealed by the Holy Spirit (v.13)

In Christ, he gave thanks and prayed for them:

  • To receive the spirit of wisdom and revelation (v.17)
  • To receive an enlightened understanding to know the hope of His calling (v.18)
  • To know the riches of His inheritance (v.18)
  • To know the exceeding greatness of His power toward them (v.19)
  • To be mindful of Christ’s authority over all things (v.22)
  • To remember Christ’s headship over the church (v.23)

“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” – 1 Thess. 5:16-18

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3 Ways to Check Level in a Tilted World

Posted on May 29, 2013 by cchrisholland

This past weekend I worked on a fence project and as I checked the level of a trim board, I discovered a curious thing (yeah, I notice the odd stuff). After adjusting to “level”, it actually appeared to be “un-level”. On further inspection from different views I noticed the slope of the ground, coupled with the angles, created a bit of an optical illusion. To be honest, for a moment I actually contemplated nailing it “un-level” so it would “look level”. 

I’m sure builders just check plumb, level and square, then nail it automatically; but it got me to thinking. How often does culture develop slopes around us, creating optical illusions in the search for spiritual “level”? I mean, what’s the real standard as we fasten our positions on various things? Is it the truth of scripture, or some form of it adjusted to “look level”? For example, most people would agree things like lying, stealing, committing murder or adultery are wrong, but a closer look at Jesus’ teaching reveals even contemplation of them is a problem (Matt. 5:28). 

In our world today, we’re faced with social issues and questions (not unlike believers in the 1st century). Like many of you, I’m trying to discern the “lay of the land” and teach our children truth in a tilted world. It’s not easy, but I can tell you from personal experience; it’s a great subject to spend time praying through. God’s truth predates all of us and will be rock solid after we’re gone. As you seek to determine the angles of “level” in your life, here are 3 points to help find the center: 

  • View the Old Testament as Jesus interpreted it – As Jesus taught, He quoted passages from what we call the Old Testament. It’s tempting to pick and choose verses from the OT that condemn what we dislike, but ignore the ones challenging our attitudes and hearts (like the religious leaders of Jesus’ day did). In the Gospels, we often find Jesus clarifying and highlighting the bigger picture concerning Himself and the purpose of God’s revealed truth (redemption-John 3:16-17, 14:6). 
  • Priorities as Jesus defined them – Another item on Jesus’ “to-do” list was identifying what should be top priority in the lives of those who call themselves “believers”. When asked about the top commandment, He replied: 

“’You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart,

with all your soul, and with all your mind’. This is the first and great commandment.

And the second is like it, ‘You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’” –Matthew 22:37-39 NKJV 

  • Reconciliation as motive – As we interact with people, there’s no shortage of opportunities to use the truth as a weapon. Paul even references the truth of God’s word as a sword (an offensive and defensive weapon) in Ephesians 6:17. However, use of it should ALWAYS be tempered by our mission of reconciling people to Christ. Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians 5:18-20 that we have been given the “ministry of reconciliation” and are to be “ambassadors for Christ”. The bottom line is that if we love Christ, we’ll love who/what He loves. 

PS. If you’ve read this post, I’ve prayed for you. My first prayer is that you know Jesus personally in a real way and have experienced His love and forgiveness. Second, I pray that you’ll have discernment to apply God’s truth to your life, your circumstances and those you influence – thanks for reading!

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Memo: How to Change a Person’s Day

Posted on May 15, 2013 by cchrisholland

You have the ability to greatly influence someone’s day for the better. I was recently privileged to have the tone of my day completely changed for the better. It was totally unexpected and got me thinking how powerful a personal word is. Truth is, most of us know what I’m about to say to be true, but if you’re like me, a reminder helps nudge you to action. So if you’re willing to help change someone’s day:

Communicate a word of thanks or compliment – A simple note, text, email, or spoken word can be the moment someone’s personal weather forecast changes from “rainy” to “partly cloudy” or even “sunny”. As you do, these two points may also help:

  • Be brief – Knowing in advance the note will be small, greatly increases the likelihood of actually doing it (instead of putting it aside for a time to “really think it through”).
  • Be specific – Drawing attention to something specific has more impact than a general phrase. Both types of statements may be sincere, but mentioning a detail speaks volumes.

Yeah, I know it’s not rocket science, but your friend probably doesn’t need a scientist today, but they could really use a word from you.

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Uh, you may want to check the mirror before…

Posted on May 9, 2013 by cchrisholland

Ever wished you’d checked the mirror before going out in public? Yep, we’ve all had those moments (or witnessed someone else’s). What about checking the spiritual mirror? James 1:22-25 tells us God’s word is like a mirror. He also says those who look into it and act on what they see, will be blessed in what they do. So, do you want your efforts to be blessed? Here are three scenarios Jesus described for us to consider:

Before going out in public: In Luke 14:7-11 Jesus instructs His listeners to avoid seeking the “best seats” and go for the more “lowly seats”. Part of it is practical wisdom, like avoiding the embarrassment of being asked to move, but I believe it’s much more. He finishes the story with a strong warning:

“For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and he who humbles himself will be exalted.” -Luke 14:11

So, as we go into public settings, a quick pause to check the mirror may help us avoid some awkward moments and lingering embarrassment. Jesus modeled the life of a servant, not a celebrity and I’m confident His mirror will reflect what he demonstrated.

Before dealing with people: In Luke 16, Jesus told the story of a dishonest steward. The steward was forced to make some quick, seemingly smart deals to ingratiate himself to friends before his termination. The story culminates with instructions to be faithful in the small things, thus avoiding the whole dilemma and later in verse 15 He gives us this “mirror” statement:

“…God knows the heart. For what is highly esteemed among men is an abomination in the sight of God.” -Luke 16:16

Sometimes things acceptable in the eyes of culture aren’t acceptable in the eyes of God. Even though it appears the steward made a savvy adjustment, it’s better to make wise choices in the first place. Whether buying, selling or working; checking the mirror first is a great idea because:

  • Motive is always important to God
  • God’s value system is different than the world culture
  • The truth will eventually come out

Before conversations with God: In Luke 18:9-14, Jesus tells of two men going up to the Temple to pray; one a Pharisee, one a tax collector. The contrast is strong between the two men’s prayer-the Pharisee thankful not be a sinner, the tax collector sorry to be a sinner. Jesus said only one went home justified-the tax collector. Luke tells us in verse 9 that Jesus spoke this parable to some “who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and despised others”.

The danger of trusting in our own measurement system (like the Pharisees) is the slide into self-deception. We construct our own standard, smile when we meet it, and then form strong opinions of those who don’t. Jesus clearly taught the opposite-coming to God with a contrite heart (Psalm 51:17) and letting Him lift us up.

Over the years, I’ve found myself feeling awkward in all three of these areas at times, but I’m hoping to avoid a repeat. How about you? The mirror can help…

Series: “Thoughts on Luke” Luke 14:7-11, 16:15, 18:9-14

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5 Things Christians can be “For”

Posted on April 30, 2013 by cchrisholland

In a culture attempting to define Christians as those “against” various issues, I’m finding it helpful to focus on what the Bible tells me to be “for”. Here’s a short list of 5:

1. The Gospel as “Good News” – The word “gospel” literally means “good news”. People don’t need help feeling miserable & condemned; they need help understanding the one true source of hope & forgiveness. Where therapy and self-help gurus come up short; Jesus actually changes lives forever and provides a way to know Him personally (2 Cor. 5:17, Romans 5:1-8).

2. Personal Character – As a follower of Christ, I need to be authentic every day. Psalm 15 describes those who dwell in the presence of the Lord as ones who:

  • Walk uprightly v.2 (having sound character and integrity, even in the “gray” areas)
  • Work Righteousness v.2 (to pursue activities that spread honorable attitudes)
  • Speak truth v.2 (consistently honest in both private life and public)
  • Speak no gossip v.3 (even the stuff spoken privately as a “concern”)
  • Speak no ill of a friend v.3 (a true friend)
  • Keep promises v.4-5a (even when it hurts)
  • Isn’t swayed by money v.5b (takes no bribe)

3. Christ-honoring Treatment of Others – Phil. 2:15 charges us “to be without fault in the midst of a “crooked and perverse generation” in order to shine as lights. That means I must look to Jesus’ model of extending grace & love, then prayerfully choose to reflect the same in dealing with others (1 John 4:7-11).

4. God’s Best in my Home – Along with God’s design for marriage and intimacy (Gen. 2:24 & 27), I need to be proactive and intentional about the environment inside my home. Our families’ speech to each other, levels of truthfulness, follow-through, time management, priorities, etc should all reflect an honest pursuit of God’s best and not mediocrity or compromise.

5. A Growing Prayer Life – Prayer is an incredible gift and the Bible tells us to “pray without ceasing” (1 Thess. 5:17). Whether I’m requesting help, sharing a burden, giving thanks, seeking guidance or interceding for others, the privilege of prayer is such a precious resource. It should be a regular part of my day and a natural “first-response” when issues pop-up.

To be clear, days do come along personally and vocationally requiring moral stands, but prayerful discernment is critical in approaching them. Our personal legacies are built day-by-day and I pray that mine speaks more of what I was for than what I was against. How about you?

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Memo: A Little Known Fact about Prayer

Posted on April 25, 2013 by cchrisholland

Prayer is an incredible gift. As followers of Christ, we have the amazing privilege of personal conversation with the King of creation. The Bible contains many truths about prayer and three of them I was recently reminded of.

These two you probably know already:

  • Christ as Mediator/High Priest – Hebrews 4:14-16 describes Jesus as our High Priest, interceding on our behalf to God the Father. He knows what we’re facing and can relate to the pressures, difficulties, hurts and needs of life. He is compassionate and verse 16 instructs us to come boldly to the throne of grace.
  • The Holy Spirit as Enabler – Romans 8:26-28 describes the Person of the Holy Spirit as “groaning on our behalf with words that can’t be uttered”. When words fail and we are at the complete end of our ability to formulate expressions, He steps in and takes over. He searches our hearts and communicates between our limited capacity and God’s unlimited nature.

This one you may have never heard about:

  • Our prayers are held for a special moment – Revelation 5 describes when Jesus will step forward to take the Seven Seal Scroll from the Father. Once that happens, grand and powerful events will be set into motion. The heavenly gathering will worship and the Elders will bring forward golden bowls of incense. However, it’ll not be just any incense, verse 8 describes the contents as the “prayers of the saints”…wow!

I’m learning that our prayers are NEVER in vain. Think about it. Every moment spent in prayer is held in reserve to be poured out as incense before the throne of God at just the right time. Our struggles, our pain, our petitions and our praise-all poured out as a fragrant offering. Jesus describes our Father as one who desires to hear from His children (Luke 11:9-13), so even if the answers aren’t clear yet, we can know our Father greatly values the time.

“Rejoice always! Pray constantly! Give thanks in everything, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
– 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 HCSB

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Life is What Happens While You’re Making Plans

Posted on April 19, 2013 by cchrisholland

That quote grabbed my attention recently and I caught myself daydreaming right in front of the person who said it (not unusual for me). How true though, life really is happening…every moment…of every day.” It was one of those reminders the Lord sent to move my thoughts in the right direction. Now several weeks later, I’m still thinking about it and considering the whole “plans and dreams” thing. It is amazing how my dreams have changed and narrowed in recent years. The trajectory isn’t lower, just different.

You see early on, I thought of trekking around the world and taking risks (and God allowed me to do some of both), but He has gifted me today with opportunities I couldn’t foresee. What I’m learning now is “husband”, “dad”, “minister” and “friend” aren’t just labels; they’re my life’s work and I don’t want to miss out while “making plans”. The Bible tells us the “cares of this world” can kill our effectiveness for the Kingdom (Luke 8:14, 1 John 2:15-17) and I don’t want to die focused on worldly goals.

Perhaps you had big dreams at one time (or still do). Maybe you had hopes for a level of significance and life turned out a bit “smaller” than you hoped? It’s probably really not (smaller that is). Chances are your scope of influence is way bigger than you realize. Do you have a spouse? Children? Co-workers? Neighbors? Extended family? Employees? Church position? Social media relationships? Sports team friendships? Regular shopping locations? Your life really is a lot bigger than you can measure.

So as you go about doing the routine stuff, here are a few thoughts to pack away in the briefcase or purse:

  • Most significant conversations aren’t planned for. They happen in the normal flow of life when there is proximity to others; personal or casual. “Quantity of time” trumps “quality of time” every time.
  • We have the power to influence someone’s day. Our daily interaction with people can be a positive testimony for Christ…or not. The same is especially true with our children and spouses.
  • Pray every day for the power and courage to represent Jesus well. Paul says we are Ambassadors for Christ (2 Corinthians 5:20). Wherever we go, whoever we talk to, and whatever we do should be within that framework.

Naturally, some days feel more successful than others, but never discount where God has placed you, and what He wants to do through you. Remember, “Life is what happens while you’re making plans.”

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Memo: My Worst Enemy

Posted on April 2, 2013 by cchrisholland

There’s a guy who gets on my nerves. He comes around at the worst times, stays too long and drops negative comments. I’ve thought about punching him in the mouth, but I’m confident it wouldn’t do any good. I’ve considered serving him a no-trespass notice, but he would ignore it. I’ve even tried being nice, but it only worked for a little while. Ultimately, I was reminded of the solution in scripture.

The answer isn’t showing patience, kindness or love  and the person I’m talking about is me, or I should say, a part of me. I call him “Critical Chris”. He always seems to have an opinion and here’s what the Bible says to do with him. 

Paul wrote in Romans 6:11 “…reckon yourselves to be dead indeed to sin, but alive to God in Christ Jesus our Lord.” The word “reckon” means to “account, consider and act on the principle of what is true”. I’m learning each day that I must meet him (Critical Chris) at the door and declare this truth: 

“I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh, I live by faith in the son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.” -Galatians 2:20 

My worst enemy is often myself, but thankfully there’s victory and freedom in Christ. Perhaps you’re like me and know someone similar. Maybe their name doesn’t start with “Critical…” but something like “Selfish…”, “Prideful…” or “Gossipy…” and you’re tired of them. If so, it’s time to quit playing nice. I encourage you to prayerfully claim Galatians 2:20, grit your teeth, and let him/her know they’re not welcome anymore. Chances are; someone around you will be glad to see them go too!

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A Little Solid Ground in the Shifting Marriage Debate

Posted on March 29, 2013 by cchrisholland

In the past couple of years, the conversation about gay marriage has taken several turns. First there was mass criticism of Kirk Cameron and Dan Cathy of Chick-fil-A, followed by a string of dust-ups and legal battles. With the steady stream of noise, the conversation seems to be shifting almost daily; so if you need a little solid ground to rest on for a minute, remember:

  • God’s way is best-Instead of getting trapped in the quicksand of an “equality” debate, consider how Biblical marriage is superior to counterfeit models. God formed Eve specifically to complete Adam. A man and woman fit together in every way. Physically, emotionally, and psychologically, God designed us to complement each other. It doesn’t take much observation to see how boys and girls are wired different. We augment each other’s weaknesses, and keep one another’s extremes in check. It’s an amazing process of two lives merging together into something greater than the sum of two parts. Anything else; pre-marital intimacy, living together outside of marriage, or same-sex relations, fall short of God’s design. He made us “male and female” (Genesis 2:27), and declared; “a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24). It’s an earthly picture of a heavenly truth; Christ and His Bride, the Church.
  • Discernment is key- Our core problem as humans is struggling against God’s authority. The attempt to recalibrate His design is actually rebellion and the desire for peer validation is a symptom, not the “end-all”. As followers of Jesus, we need to discuss sin in the full context of scripture, not selectively. There are no special categories of sin or sinners. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” While some sins have far greater consequences, we all need God’s grace and forgiveness equally. The truth of scripture should be spoken in authentic love at Spirit-led times. There is forgiveness and acceptance to any who trust Christ as Lord (Romans 5:8 & 8:1, II Corinthians 5:17), resulting in a changed life.
  • It helps to relax-When Jesus said in Matthew 28:18, “…all authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth.” He actually meant it. Mark 16:19 says that Jesus sat down at the right hand of God, meaning He’s there now with absolutely nothing happening beyond His sight and awareness. Think about what it means; no person, group or political force will ever be able to strong-arm their way to ultimate victory. It may appear so at times, but our King has already won.
  • Prayer isn’t a small thing-don’t forget the most precious resource we have; the ability to enter His throne room. There we can share our hearts, ask for forgiveness & strength, get guidance and have our thoughts reset. What’s happening around us is spiritual in nature and prayer should always be part of the process…always. Pray to understand scripture, pray before sharing, pray before posting, and pray for those who need Christ. As Paul said:

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus” -Philippians 4:6-7

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3 Quick Reminders from the Seed Parable

Posted on March 21, 2013 by cchrisholland

One of the cool things about the seed parable is that Jesus explained it. Found in Luke 8:4-15, it describes 4 different results of seed falling onto the ground. A combining of the story & explanation produces these pictures:

  • The Hard Soil-no fruit at all (seed stolen by the devil)
  • The Rocky Soil-grows quick, but soon withers (fell away during testing from lack of roots)
  • The Thorny Soil-growth choked out by thorns (the cares & pleasures of this world preventing maturity)
  • The Good Soil-growth, maturity and fruit (a heart desiring to hear, do and endure)

Here are 3 quick reminders:

  1. The seed contains life-Jesus emphasized the seed (the Word) and the soil receiving it, not the sower. The seed itself produces life, not the one handling it or the clever use of it.
  2. The results aren’t up to me-It’s not productive to attempt forcing growth where it’s not happening, nor is it right to claim credit when it does (1 Cor. 3:6-7).
  3. Time is the test-Eventually, the nature of the soil and the response to the truth will become clear; be prayerfully patient.

I encourage you to be a sower. Whether it’s spoken, written, emailed or tweeted; God’s Word is life-giving. Share it today!

Series: “Thoughts on Luke” – Luke 8:4-15

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Women’s Liberation and Jesus’ Ministry

Posted on March 14, 2013 by cchrisholland

Bible stories are unvarnished. Heroes of the faith are presented as they really were, including their struggles. Instead of glossing over faults, we get the true picture. When considering the Gospel narratives of Jesus’ ministry, we should take note of who is mentioned and what we can learn from them…including the women. Since Jesus’ ministry contrasted 1st Century norms by including females, did that make Him a champion of women’s liberation? Well, in a word-yes; however, it wasn’t about rights; it was about freedom…true freedom. Jesus was (and is) in the liberation business. He said of Himself:

“Therefore, if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed.” – Matthew 8:36 

In Luke 7:36-50 we see a beautiful display of worship by a lady party-crasher. The scene is at Simon the Pharisee’s house and the woman is unnamed. She comes in and with many tears; washes Jesus’ feet, wipes them with her hair and anoints them with fragrant oil. The scripture tells us Simon mentally focused on her sinner’s past, but Jesus verbally notes her forgiven future. I am amazed at the lessons to be learned from the women surrounding Jesus. Time and again they stood taller than the men in their boldness to follow Christ. To be honest, it can still be true today. So what can we learn from her example? Let’s consider:

  • Her Brokenness – She saw herself in the pure light of Jesus’ presence. Unlike the Pharisee who sensed no need for the Lord’s forgiveness, she realized her soul’s need. There were many tears and an outpouring of gratitude to Him. In the process, she not only received forgiveness, she also heard the Master say, “Go in peace.” Many look for peace through various pursuits, but only Jesus can deliver real lasting peace.
  • Her Humility – By lowering her hair for use as a makeshift towel, she gave up any remaining pretense of dignity (women’s hair represented their glory as a woman). It was a humble act and evidence of a contrite heart (Psalm 51:17).
  • Her Boldness – By crashing Simon’s banquet, she risked further talk around town of her lacking character. What would they say? How would Jesus respond? She didn’t know how it would all work out, but she went ahead anyway and demonstrated her love.
  • Her Gift – By providing the fragrant oil, she gave of what she had. Like the women followers mentioned in the verses afterwards (Luke 8:1-3), the woman at Simon’s house displayed a grateful heart and gave to Jesus out of her substance. It’s no coincidence that the word “give” is in the middle of “forgiveness” – it’s central to what the word means.
  • Her Take-away – When she left Simon’s house, she carried with her the most valuable and precious treasure ever acquired – eternal life. Jesus told her, “Your faith has saved you…”, but Simon received nothing. He was close in proximity, but tragically distant in spirit. 

James 2:26 tells us that faith without works is dead. I don’t know Simon’s reasons for inviting Jesus to his house. Perhaps he was truly interested, but his lack of hospitality suggests otherwise. In the end, the woman was the one with faith in action. For those of us who have trusted Christ, we have received much. We can learn a lot from the women who followed Christ. They were grateful, bold and willing to tell of His love. 

Think about it, the Samaritan woman-at-the-well saw a whole village changed by simply telling of her encounter with Christ. How about us? As a guy, I’m ready to fight, but am I ready to give? Am I ready to be humble? Am I ready to tell? Ouch, I think I just got pinched by the truth. I guess it’s time to step it up! 

Series – “Thoughts on Luke” – Luke 7:36-8:3

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