An Everyday Kind of Joy

Posted on August 31, 2012 by cchrisholland

I’m often blessed by men and women with the attitude described below by Oswald Chambers. From time to time I return to his writings and today these words seem especially applicable. Choose today not to settle for what the world describes as joy…seek His and walk in it. You may just be the unexpected blessing someone needs.

“Living a full and overflowing life does not rest in bodily health, in circumstances, nor even in seeing God’s work succeed, but in the perfect understanding of God, and in the same fellowship and oneness with Him that Jesus Himself enjoyed. But the first thing that will hinder this joy is the subtle irritability caused by giving too much thought to our circumstances. Jesus said, “. . . the cares of this world . . .choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful” (Mark 4:19). And before we even realize what has happened, we are caught up in our cares. All that God has done for us is merely the threshold— He wants us to come to the place where we will be His witnesses and proclaim who Jesus is.

Have the right relationship with God, finding your joy there, and out of you “will flow rivers of living water” (John 7:38). Be a fountain through which Jesus can pour His “living water.” Stop being hypocritical and proud, aware only of yourself, and live “your life . . . hidden with Christ in God” (Colossians 3:3). A person who has the right relationship with God lives a life as natural as breathing wherever he goes. The lives that have been the greatest blessing to you are the lives of those people who themselves were unaware of having been a blessing.”       -Oswald Chambers

Oswald Chambers’ daily devotionals can be found at: http://utmost.org/

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We Can Trust Our Guide

Posted on August 30, 2012 by cchrisholland

I remember being dropped in an unfamiliar location with only a map and compass, along with instructions to find my way back to the assembly area. Needless to say, it was a challenge, but all part of the learning experience. I had signed on to become an Army Cavalry Scout, but before I could lead others, I needed to gain trust in my map and compass…and I did. 

In our daily journey following Christ, we also have an incredible map (the scriptures) and compass (the Holy Spirit). The Master Guide has given us tools and landmarks to see our progress. If we are to reach the summit of maturity, I think there are 4 landmarks we’ll all pass by on the way: 

Landmark 1: Embracing God’s Authority – Do I really view God as sovereign? He is totally free to do as He pleases. In the beginning God made everything (Genesis 1:1, John 1:3). There simply isn’t any escaping the fact that God is in control. He not only created everything, but defeated the evil that came afterwards (Matthew 28:18). He’s the mountain in the distance standing taller than the clouds. 

Landmark 2: Attitude Correction – Just like catching a glimpse of a water tower along a ridge, Philippians 2:5-11 helps me to see something specific on the map (the nature of Christ). I may have been traveling for miles in the wrong direction, but seeing a known object restores my bearing. Without stopping to look, I may assume everything is great and be headed for trouble. The standard of Jesus never changes and the compass of the Holy Spirit always points north to Him. 

Landmark 3: The Big Picture – Sometimes walking into a clearing to get a good view helps me see the overall scale of things. I can spot rain coming or look back over the ground just covered and know why the trail had to go the direction it did. Like Joseph in Genesis 45, we don’t always understand what’s happening in the grander scale, but trusting God in the smaller sections of the trail (climb this rock, cross this creek) leads to eventually seeing. Focusing on the truths I do know helps me deal with what I don’t know. 

Landmark 4: Dealing with People – As we go, encountering others is going to be part of it. This one tends to be moss-covered and slippery, so watch your step! James 3:13-18 tells us wisdom from above in dealing with others involves purity, peace, mercy, and authenticity. 

Hopefully you’ve seen some of these already. If not…trust your Guide. The Bible says for those of us who’ve placed our trust in Jesus, the Holy Spirit will guide us into all truth (John 16:13). So, if you’ve found these landmarks, help point others. That’s called making disciples and what a privilege it is to do so!

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Jesus on Facebook, Twitter and Blogs

Posted on August 27, 2012 by cchrisholland

Recently, while reading a Christian leader’s blog, I couldn’t help but wonder, “What kind of posts would Jesus write?” Would He be direct? Sarcastic? Critical? Hmmm…I wonder. Obviously social media wasn’t around then, but there was social-networking, and His ministry was in full view of the opinion-makers of the day. Yes, formats and venues have changed, but human nature hasn’t. 

As a follower of Christ, everything I say, write or do involves Jesus. The Bible says I’m His temple, a part of His Body, and I’m not my own (I Cor. 6:19 & 12:12-27). So, since Jesus lives in and through me, the question has become three tests to apply to my posts: 

1. The “Like” Effect – “What’s the motive?” Am I sharing an encouraging or affirming word? Am I passing along something I’m learning? Or does the “Like” button motivate me more than I want to admit? It’s a subtle little thing, but its presence (like “retweets” and “sharing”) can influence subject, tone and content. It can even involve foregoing a post for fear of not getting “likes” and appearing foolish. 

2. The Whine Factor – Nobody enjoys listening to whiners. Whether it’s personal, business or spiritual, the temptation to vent frustrations can destroy credibility, friendships and opportunities to share what Christ has done in my life. Yes, as a follower of Christ, I should always be ready to share God’s truth unapologetically, but in an authentic spirit of love (Eph. 4:15, I Peter 3:15). 

3. The Value Question – Do I see my opinion more importantly than others? Yes, probably. Hey, I like my own opinion, but it isn’t always important. Contrary to pop-culture, all opinions are not equal and certainly not always welcome. With comment boxes everywhere, we sometimes offer answers to questions that weren’t asked. When in doubt, the old saying, “silence is golden” fits very well.

Ultimately it should come down to “Am I representing Christ well?” To be certain, there are times for boldness, subtlety, forgiveness, humor and encouragement, but all should be in agreement with Christ’s model. My prayer is to know when the proper times are for each and simply let the rest go.

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Do You Have Marriage “Ground Rules”?

Posted on August 14, 2012 by cchrisholland

In conversations with couples, I’ve found an interesting thing. Many have never discussed the “Ground Rules” of their marriage and home. There may be hopes and expectations, but that’s simply not enough. If you don’t have some predetermined boundaries, then the risk of crossing into undesired territory becomes much more likely. In daily life together, “norms” get established, and it’s a great idea to clarify what they are and where the lines fall.

Here are some of the non-negotiable “Ground Rules” my wife and I worked through and decided would be foundational in our relationship. They’re not earth-shattering, but may be helpful: 

  • Speech – We’ve established that certain words/language/ways-of-speaking are not acceptable in our house. It applies to all of us and the guests that enter, especially during times of disagreement. (Colossians 4:6)
  • Transparency – Money, friendships, etc are always in clear view of both. Secret feelings can be very destructive. (Ephesians 4:25-32, 5:22-33)
  • Solidarity – We don’t “break ranks” with each other concerning extended family. We defend each other to our own family in things like holiday activities and parenting. After making choices as a couple and family, we stand as a unit. (Genesis 2:24)
  • Confidence – Conversations with a person of the opposite sex never include things reserved for one another. In other words, there’s no room for emotional intimacy with someone other than my soul-mate. (Galatians 5:9)
  • In Public – We’re committed to not embarrassing each other in public settings by making disrespectful comments about the other; physical attributes, work habits, etc. (Ephesians 5:1-2) 

Hopefully you’ve discussed such things in your marriage. If you haven’t, please do. Having a plan really makes a difference. Either way, habits are going to be established, why not try to make them good ones!

For a printable PDF version, click here: https://dl.dropbox.com/u/96565037/Marriage%20Ground%20Rules.pdf

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Good Grief, They’re Messin’ with My Chicken Now!

Posted on July 27, 2012 by cchrisholland

Ok…I’m mad. Attacking Chick-fil-A crosses the line and everybody knows you don’t mess with a Southerner’s chicken! Well…I’m not really mad, but I am sad…sad that godly leaders like Dan Cathy are now attacked for simply affirming biblical truth. While the hubbub about Mr. Cathy’s statement is discouraging, it does remind me (yet again) of what the Lord’s been showing me lately. If you’re interested, it’s in an earlier post asking the question: 

“Pop Culture is in the Toilet, Now What?”

Build a commune and string up barbed wire? Hmmm, I admit there are days when it sounds tempting, but of course is the wrong answer. With atheism, homosexuality, and other agendas on the advance, what’s a Christian to do? Simply put…live in the moments given to us, because good or bad, this is our time. The iconic leaders of the older generation will soon be gone and as the mantle is passed, we must move forward.

I sometimes think about the early Church and what they talked about with such depravity around them. I’m sure there was discouragement and worry. Of course Paul, John, and Peter wrote them encouraging letters and are often my “go-to” place, but there is also another diamond placed at the front of the Psalms that gives great clarity looking ahead. Take a look:

“1 Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful; 2But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and in His law he meditates day and night. 3 He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he does shall prosper. 4 The ungodly are not so, but are like the chaff which the wind drives away. 5 Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. 6 For the Lord knows the way of the righteous, but the way of the ungodly shall perish.” –Psalms 1:1-6 NKJV

It should be the same for us too, drawing strength and confidence in the fact that God knows us. Through Jesus, we’ve been made one of the righteous. Here are three ways this Psalm helps me: 

  • To Find Joy in His Word – Our delight should be in His Word (v.2). To the Believer, “the Law” represents Christ’s work on the cross satisfying God’s requirements and the grace He’s shown. Prayerfully pondering the depths of His Word should be part of my life each day. Christian authors, podcasters, etc. can be great, but only the scripture is the actual revealed truth of God. Don’t sacrifice time “in the Word” for someone talking “about the Word”.
  • To Stay Healthy – The image of a tree growing and producing fruit is used many times in scripture to describe the person following God’s instructions. Paul described the workings of the Holy Spirit in us as “fruit” in Galatians 4:22-23. The most important part of a tree is the hidden root system below the surface. Our roots must sink deep and be connected to the source of living water-Christ. Conversely, if roots are shallow, then there can be stunted growth, disease, or easy destruction by a strong wind.
  • To Keep Wins/Loses in Perspective – If we’re not careful, the cultural battle can drift into terms of wins and losses. This Psalm helps me remember that God will ultimately “put things right”. There will be a day when God’s sovereignty will be on full powerful display, but it should motivate me to share, not be a reason for smugness. Yes, we should always speak truth, but in a prayerful way (Colossians 4:2-6). Bible passages aren’t bullets for a holy six-gun, but life giving seeds for new trees. 

Remember, the race is set before us (Heb. 12:1-2). Run it with confidence and be ready to share the reason for the hope that is in you (I Peter 3:15)!

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3 Things this “Old Guy” Learned at Summer Camp

Posted on July 18, 2012 by cchrisholland

“Middle School Summer Camp”, yep, the phrase evokes a LOT of different emotions! For this “old guy” (what a student affectionately called me), camp was a great learning experience and a timely lesson on investing in our kids. Here are 3 quick thoughts on things the Lord taught me during the weekend. 

Dignity is overrated – It was said that we should “take God seriously, but not ourselves”. I needed that reminder. As one of the team leaders, it was good for me to get outside of my comfort zone and loosen up some. I’m by nature an intense person, but I don’t ever want to let intensity eclipse the pure joy of being set free in Christ and living in that freedom! 

Words aren’t enough – Engaging and listening helped me see the value in “connecting-the-dots” concerning biblical truth. Verbally communicating truth is a good thing; but translating truth through the language of a life is a great thing! Life is built on individual moments and my prayer is to take advantage of each one as best I can. 

The Lord always has and always will raise up new disciples – The best part was seeing first-hand how serious some of the students take their Christian walk. We must never forget Who is ultimately in charge of raising up new disciples. There’s never been a generation where the Lord forgot his Bride the Church. We should NEVER let cultural shifts weaken our expectations for great things through the lives of our children!

Overall, I’m very encouraged by the experience and am very grateful for the opportunity…woo-hoo! (Sorry, I’m still prone to yelling after our great worship times!)

“Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is- His good, pleasing and perfect will.” -Romans 12:2 TNIV

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Avoiding Heartburn this Election

Posted on July 10, 2012 by cchrisholland

*WARNING-the following has not been evaluated by the FDA 

Like many of you, I’m concerned about our nation. This year’s election is important, but hope for political solutions often results in personal heartburn. It’s been a long journey for me personally (as a former news junkie), but I’m finally learning to fix my sights beyond politics. This is what I’m learning: 

As a follower of Christ, my first priority is to be authentic, not loud. Psalm 15 describes those who dwell in the presence of the Lord as ones who:

  • Walk uprightly v.2 (having sound character and integrity, even in the “gray” areas)
  • Work Righteousness v.2 (to facilitate right and pursue activity that spreads Christ honoring attitudes)
  • Speak truth v.2 (consistently honest in both private life and public)
  • Speak no gossip v.3 (even the stuff spoken privately as a “concern”)
  • Speak no ill of a friend v.3 (a true friend)
  • Keep promises v.4-5a (even when it hurts)
  • Doesn’t take advantage of others v.5a (lending money at usury)
  • Isn’t swayed by money v.5b (takes no bribe) 

Next is to be an influencer in the world around me. Phil. 2:15 charges us to be without fault in the midst of a “crooked and perverse generation” in order to be lights. Often I find myself wanting things changed, more than wanting to be an agent of change in the lives of those I know. Peter tells us to be ready to give a reason for the hope that is in us (I Peter 3:15). I must be willing to engage people in conversation in hopes of being able to share the why behind my views. 

Last is the question of honor. Psalm 15:4 says the one who dwells in His presence reserves honor “for those who fear the Lord”. That narrows the list quite a bit! Concerning “political heartburn”, this is where I believe the scripture describes avoiding the jalapeño effect of misplaced trust. Too long, we’ve looked to men to accomplish what only God can. Our problems are sin based, not party based. To be clear, I’m thankful to able to vote in November, but I’m praying for a mighty move of God in our land…it’s the only real hope for change!

Series: Psalms-Lesson 4

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Dealing with Jerks & Scoundrels

Posted on July 3, 2012 by cchrisholland

Ever wondered why God doesn’t do something about the co-worker from you-know-where or the family member getting away with everything? If so, you’re not alone. In life, we often come in contact with unkind people and sometimes even those much worse. So, does the Bible have anything for us when it seems evil is winning? Yep. I recently found Psalm 10 to be a great word about it. 

How the psalmist begins is interesting. He starts with, “Why do you stand afar off?” Ever thought that? We know He is mindful of all things, but sometimes it sure doesn’t feel like it. So let’s look at how he answers his own question. 

First, he describes the mindset of Mr. Jerk and Ms. Scoundrel in verses 2-13:

2The wicked in his pride persecutes the poor;Let them be caught in the plots which they have devised. 3For the wicked boasts of his heart’s desire; He blesses the greedy and renounces the Lord. 4The wicked in his proud countenance does not seek God; God is in none of his thoughts. 5His ways are always prospering; Your judgments are far above, out of his sight; As for all his enemies, he sneers at them. 6He has said in his heart, “I shall not be moved; I shall never be in adversity.” 7His mouth is full of cursing and deceit and oppression;Under his tongue is trouble and iniquity…

11He has said in his heart, “God has forgotten; He hides His face; He will never see.” 12Arise, O Lord! O God, lift up Your hand! Do not forget the humble. 13Why do the wicked renounce God? He has said in his heart, “You will not require an account.” (NKJV) 

  • No acknowledgment of God’s sovereignty (v.2-4)
  • Arrogant spirit (v.5-7)
  • No consideration of a final accounting (v.12-13)
  • A prideful heart (v.2,4,3,6,11,13) 

So why is the mindset important? It’s because it gives us insight into motive and drive. All of the negative words and actions are tied directly to the heart and only God can change that. So what does the psalmist recommend? 

  • Remember that God is still in complete control – “You have seen, for You observe trouble and grief, to repay it by your hand…” (v.14)
  • Remember that God makes decisions as King without our input – “The Lord is King forever and ever.” (v.16) 

Along with those two things, consider that it may be the Lord’s timing that’s really causing our questions. We see things in the here and now…a tiny corner of a BIG picture. Think back to when God was telling Abram about his descendents in Genesis 15. He describes their future of becoming a great nation, being slaves and then leaving in mighty power. In verse 16 He reveals a tiny clue about how He sees the bigger picture:

16But in the fourth generation they shall return here, for the iniquity of the Amorites is not yet complete.” (NJKV) 

The destruction of the Amorites was to be over 400 years in the future. God was pronouncing judgment, but not executing it for generations…wow! That’s different and outside of our thinking because it’s God’s area of operation! Often, we just simply don’t know what the bigger picture is. Absolutely no wrong will escape judgment (II Tim. 4:1, Heb. 9:27), but it may be God allowing them additional time to repent (like the city of Nineveh did after Jonah’s preaching) or a circumstance is being developed to draw them to faith. 

So where does that leave us personally in grappling with it all? Well, verse 17 says “He will hear and prepare the heart of the humble”. I don’t know about you, but I need that…I REALLY need that! The only way for us to deal with jerks and scoundrels properly is to let the Lord be our guide. Even though a good punch in the mouth or cold shoulder may feel justified, I can’t allow myself to get pulled into the same mindset. The bottom line is we are called to ACT different, SPEAK different and THINK different, even when the pressure is on (Romans 12:1-2).

So here’s the take away: Pray for wisdom. Pray for discernment. And while you’re at it, Mr. Jerk and Ms. Scoundrel could use prayer too. God may surprise you.

Series: Psalms-Lesson 3

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“Don’t worry Dear Lady, you’re not forgotten.”

Posted on June 28, 2012 by cchrisholland

Today, Lady Liberty was insulted by a 5-4 vote to uphold a grievous law. By doing so, politicians have been allowed to trash her house and mock the high cost paid for their freedom to do so. However, this is not the end, because those of us who treasure freedom are not going anywhere and I offer this thought as some encouragement.

2012 marks the 200th anniversary of the War of 1812. Critics back in the day called it “Mr. Madison’s War” because they didn’t believe in the cause. You see, among other things, the British were widely practicing “Impressments” on the high seas by taking American merchant sailors and forcing them into British naval service. Our people saw that as a breach of our sovereignty, forcing the leaders to act. Towards the end of the war, the battle atFortMcHenry in Baltimore Harbor resulted in a perilous night of steady bombardment. Throughout the darkness, the question lingered of whether the fort would hold, or fall like Washington D.C. had. Yes, the capital had already fallen under the hand of the same British commander, General Ross. The Americans had much to be concerned over while anxiously awaiting daybreak, but then…there it was…Old Glory. Frances Scott Key was so moved, he hurriedly scratched down these lines: 

“O say can you see by the dawn’s early light,
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight’s last gleaming,
Whose broad stripes and bright stars through the perilous fight,
O’er the ramparts we watched, were so gallantly streaming?
And the rockets’ red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there;
O say does that star-spangled banner yet wave,
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave?” 

The Founding Fathers understood freedom; that it was endowed to us by God and they valued it greatly. There have always been irritants to freedom, from the Tories in the beginning to those unconcerned over British impressments in 1812, so we must always stay diligent. Our ability to speak freely and raise our children as we see fit is vitally important. I encourage all who read this to pray for God’s direction personally, and nationally. Be informed and vote so we can prove to still be “…the land of the free and the home of the brave!”

By the way, check out the last stanza Mr. Key penned as he summed it up:

“O thus be it ever, when freemen shall stand
Between their loved home and the war’s desolation.
Blest with vict’ry and peace, may the Heav’n rescued land
Praise the Power that hath made and preserved us a nation!
Then conquer we must, when our cause it is just,
And this be our motto: “In God is our trust.”
And the star-spangled banner in triumph shall wave
O’er the land of the free and the home of the brave!“

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Angry Like Jesus

Posted on June 25, 2012 by cchrisholland

Can anger ever be good? I mean in Psalm 4, verse 5 David instructs the reader to be angry without sin right? So, I wondered, “Did Jesus ever get angry?” The answer of course is yes. As a matter of fact, the Bible list several times, such as Him making a whip and laying the leather to some backsides while cleansing the Temple (John 2) and then there’s the Pharisees’ hardness of heart bringing grief and anger in Mark 3.

So what does it mean? Do we have a license to go administer holy slaps to people, as long as it’s with a cheerful heart? Of course not, (even though some of you are enjoying the thought of it). The key is the “without sin” part. We know Jesus lived and ministered without sin and for me Psalm 4 has helped to understand it.

In this Psalm, David is generally understood to be addressing the situation of his son Absalom rebelling against and trying to steal the kingdom. David’s heart was broken, but there was also anger in the picture and we see a helpful 3-part pattern of him dealing with it.

I. He declared God’s goodness

  • “You have relieved me in my distress” (v.1)
  • “The Lord has set me apart” (v.3)
  • “The Lord will hear” (v.3)
  • “You have put gladness in my heart” (v.7)
  • “You alone O Lord make we dwell in safety” (v.8)

David recounts God’s tremendous faithfulness in the past and present. I too should pause (Selah) and consider the same things in my life. Before I let emotions drive actions, I need to remember that He’s shown grace & mercy to me.

II. He decided to search his own heart

Meditation in the Biblical sense (v.4) is to pray for the Holy Spirit to search us, being still to hear God’s voice, while filling our mind with the truth of God’s word (Philippians 4:8). David identified the sin of the adversaries (arrogance and pride v.2), but his thoughts were focused on God’s sovereignty.

III. He dwelled in God’s peace

To lie down at night in complete peace is absolutely priceless. There is a sufficiency in knowing that God is ultimately in control. If anger hinders my sleep or affects my walk with God, then it’s simply not of Him. When Jesus cleaned house in John 2 it was against hypocrisy and spiritual pollution standing in the way of people seeing a clear picture of God’s love.

That brings me to the question I have to ask myself, “Does Gospel-hindering things and attitudes make me mad, or do I let the trivial stuff get to me?” To be honest, I’m ashamed of my answer and I pray for a different attitude. How about you?

Series: Psalms-Lesson 2

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Reflections on Father’s Day 2012

Posted on June 17, 2012 by cchrisholland

Is Father’s Day just a gimmick to sell cards and gifts? Some would say yes, but it’s really a great reminder of the unique role of Dad. It can also bring a wide variety of emotions, depending on circumstances. Personally, I’m starting to see Father’s Day as not only a day to honor my father (as God commanded us in Exodus 20:12), but to take inventory of how I’ve led my family since last year’s celebration.

To be honest, as their spiritual leader, there are a few areas I need work in and just for fun here’s the short list:

  • To quit making excuses for my lack of follow-through
  • To not let my son outdo me in talking about how awesome God is
  • To not let my daughter outpace me in inviting people to church
  • To stand strong for the right things instead of just against the wrong things
  • To offer forgiveness as readily as I hope for it
  • To choose honesty over my pride…every time
  • To model the Golden Rule more than I quote it
  • And to remember to put my coffee cup in the dishwasher…every day 

I know they’re not profound thoughts, but it’s a start. How about you other Dads out there? God has given us a great privilege to lead. Let’s “man-up” together and be who He’s called us to be!

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Pop Culture is in the Toilet, Now What?

Posted on June 5, 2012 by cchrisholland

Build a commune and string up barbed wire? Hmmm, I admit there are days when it sounds tempting, but of course is the wrong answer. With atheism, homosexuality, and other agendas on the advance, what’s a Christian to do? Simply put…live in the moments given to us, because good or bad, this is our time. The iconic leaders of the older generation will soon be gone and as the mantle is passed, we must move forward.

I sometimes think about the early Church and what they talked about with such depravity around them. I’m sure there was discouragement and worry. Of course Paul, John, and Peter wrote them encouraging letters and are often my “go-to” place, but there is also another diamond placed at the front of the Psalms that gives great clarity looking ahead. Take a look:

“1 Blessed is the man who walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the path of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful; 2But his delight is in the law of the Lord, and in His law he meditates day and night. 3 He shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water that brings forth its fruit in its season, whose leaf also shall not wither; and whatever he does shall prosper. 4 The ungodly are not so, but are like the chaff which the wind drives away. 5 Therefore the ungodly shall not stand in the judgment, nor sinners in the congregation of the righteous. 6 For the Lord knows the way of the righteous, but the way of the ungodly shall perish.” –Psalms 1:1-6 NKJV

It should be the same for us too, drawing strength and confidence in the fact that God knows us. Through Jesus, we’ve been made one of the righteous. Here are three ways this Psalm helps me: 

  • To Find Joy in His Word – Our delight should be in His Word (v.2). To the Believer, “the Law” represents Christ’s work on the cross satisfying God’s requirements and the grace He’s shown. Prayerfully pondering the depths of His Word should be part of my life each day. Christian authors, podcasters, etc. can be great, but only the scripture is the actual revealed truth of God. Don’t sacrifice time “in the Word” for someone talking “about the Word”.
  • To Stay Healthy – The image of a tree growing and producing fruit is used many times in scripture to describe the person following God’s instructions. Paul described the workings of the Holy Spirit in us as “fruit” in Galatians 4:22-23. The most important part of a tree is the hidden root system below the surface. Our roots must sink deep and be connected to the source of living water-Christ. Conversely, if roots are shallow, then there can be stunted growth, disease, or easy destruction by a strong wind.
  • To Keep Wins/Loses in Perspective – If we’re not careful, the cultural battle can drift into terms of wins and losses. This Psalm helps me remember that God will ultimately “put things right”. There will be a day when God’s sovereignty will be on full powerful display, but it should motivate me to share, not be a reason for smugness. Yes, we should always speak truth, but in a prayerful way (Colossians 4:2-6). Bible passages aren’t bullets for a holy six-gun, but life giving seeds for new trees. 

Remember, the race is set before us (Heb. 12:1-2), run it with confidence!

Series: Psalms-Lesson 1

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Finishing Strong

Posted on May 29, 2012 by cchrisholland

Rambling speakers bore me. I know, I probably should say that nicer, but it’s true. Perhaps you’re the same way. If so, then you’ll like Solomon’s masterful summary of the big question, “What’s the point of life anyway?” Take a look: 

“Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God and keep His commandments, for this is man’s all. For God will bring every work into judgment, including every secret thing, whether good or evil.” Eccl. 12:13-14 NKJV 

After previously discussing the question at length, he comes back in these closing remarks (under the Holy Spirit’s leadership) and nails it like a 400 yard bull’s eye! Here are three thoughts I took away from it going forward.

1. Fear God

The word fear in this context is so important. It’s a reverence for God that permeates our entire life, whether public or private…the perspective that He’s God and I’m not. In a practical sense, it helps keep me from foolish choices and be an authentic Christian example to others. My God is a BIG God!

2. Keep His Commandments

We can approach this in three ways:

  • As a Legalist-strict adherence to rules, but little attention to meaning, purpose and grace
  • As a Libertine– living as if there are no constraints as a Christ-follower, therefore mocking the precious liberty we have in Jesus
  • As a Bondservant-willfully serving Christ as the one in authority over us, just as Paul described himself

Since Colossians 2:5-8 describes Jesus modeling the role of bondservant, I believe the scripture teaches us to do the same. We were bought at a price, and are not our own (I Corinthians 6:20). Bondservant is by far the best!

3. God will Judge

The Bible describes two judgments; one for people who know Jesus as Savior (The Judgment Seat of Christ, II Corinthians 5:9-11) and another for those who do not (The White Throne Judgment, Revelation 20:11-15). The consequences are severely different for each group, but accountability is common to both. Whether reward or punishment, we’ll all answer for the life entrusted to us. I hope your trust is in Christ. If so, live for Him and make each day count!

Series: “What’s the Point of Life Anyway?” – Conclusion

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7 Ways to Minimize Regret

Posted on May 25, 2012 by cchrisholland

No one plans to have regrets and we all make mistakes, but can scripture help us minimize them? Absolutely! As followers of Christ, scripture gives guidance and here are 7 principles Solomon taught: 

1. Be a Learner
”It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise than for a man to hear the song of fools.” -Ecclesiastes 7:5 NKJV

To really hear as the Bible teaches is not just listening, but to receive, evaluate and act on what’s heard.

2. Value Patience Over Pride

“The end of a thing is better than its beginning; the patient in spirit is better than the proud in spirit.” -Ecclesiastes 7:8 NKJV

Choices offered by our fleshly nature present the best up front with declining value afterwards (shortcuts), versus what God offers (the best at the end). Pride can cloud good judgment.

3. Watch your Words

“The words of a wise man’s mouth are gracious, but the lips of a fool shall swallow him up.” -Ecclesiastes 10:12 NKJV

Words spoken cannot be retrieved. It’s probably one of the hardest areas to control for many of us, but we need be mindful of the words, tone and timing of our speech.

4. Give Thanks

“Nothing is better for a man than that he should eat and drink, and that his soul should enjoy good in his labor. This also, I saw, was from the hand of God.” -Ecclesiastes 2:24 NKJV

Enjoying the simple things in life begins with a grateful heart. If I can see God’s blessing in small daily things, then everyday moments have recognizable purpose and value.

5. Show Love While you Can

“Also their [the dead] love, their hatred, and their envy have now perished; nevermore will they have a share in anything done under the sun.” Ecclesiastes 9:10 NKJV

We should speak words of love, encouragement, and gratitude while we can because we don’t know what tomorrow brings.

6. Guard your Integrity

“Dead flies putrefy the perfumer’s ointment, and cause it to give off a foul odor;
so does a little folly to one respected for wisdom and honor.” Ecclesiastes 10:1 NKJV

Don’t let the bad smell of compromise destroy the fragrance of Christ in your life.

7. Be Diligent

“Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work or device or knowledge or wisdom in the grave where you are going.” Ecclesiastes 9:10 NKJV

We ultimately serve Christ in all we do, so approach life, work and play as a way to demonstrate devotion to Him (Col. 3:23).

Series: “What’s the Point of Life Anyway?” – Lesson 3

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What if the Bible is true?

Posted on May 15, 2012 by cchrisholland

Many dismiss the Bible’s authority, even suppressing its use in public, but here’s an open invitation for all to consider a simple question; “What if the Bible is true?” If so, then: 

  1. All non-biblical belief systems are false (John 14:6).
  2. God really does love us (John 3:16).
  3. God desires all people to turn to Him (II Peter 3:9).
  4. Jesus is the only path to heaven (Acts 4:12).
  5. Jesus freely offers peace and hope (Romans 5:1-2).
  6. Jesus changes lives forever (II Corinthians 5:17).
  7. God personally spoke the world into existence (Genesis 1).
  8. God is totally sovereign to make unilateral decisions (Psalm 86:10).
  9. God is just in all His dealings with man (Psalm 89:14).
  10.  God is still in charge of nature (Genesis 8:22).
  11.  Christians are expected to behave like Christ (Ephesians 4:32)
  12.  God’s standards never change with culture (Job 23:13).
  13.  Christians are to be disciple-makers (Matthew 28:16-20)
  14.  People not trusting in Jesus will suffer forever (Rev. 20:15).
  15.  Heaven can’t be earned (Ephesians 2:8-9).
  16.  Jesus physically rose from the dead (Acts 1:3).
  17.  God will ultimately judge all mankind (Revelation 20:12).
  18.  God’s plan will ultimately be accomplished (Revelation 21:6).
  19.  Jesus is serious about His bride, the Church (II Corinthians 11:2).
  20.  Jesus will return in awesome power and glory (Revelation 19:11-16). 

Of course some will respond with “What if it’s not?” In that case, then there’s nothing to worry about, but what if it is…

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5 Points Concerning Gay Marriage

Posted on May 12, 2012 by cchrisholland

With the national dialogue heating up over gay marriage, here are 5 quick thoughts to consider:

  • The premise is flawed. The term “Gay Marriage” is an oxymoron…like trying to discuss “dry water”. We don’t have the privilege to define marriage, God does. He made us “male and female” (Genesis 2:27), and pronounced; “a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.” (Genesis 2:24).
  • God’s way is best. Biblical marriage is far superior to any counterfeit models. God formed Eve specifically to complete Adam. A man and woman fit together in every way. Physically, emotionally, and psychologically, God designed us to compliment each other. It doesn’t take much observation to see how boys and girls are wired different. We augment each other’s weaknesses, and keep one another’s extremes in check. It’s an amazing process of two lives merging together into something greater than the sum of two parts.
  • Understand the motive. The attempt to destroy what God designed is rebellion. Our core problem as humans is struggling against God’s authority. Throughout history, we’ve chosen to worship idols built with hands, deny His existence, and refuse His directives. Seeking human peer validation for something unnatural reveals the same motivation.
  • The home is vital. Our society depends on the home to build and shape character. Life experiences growing up have tremendous effects on adult life. We’re already seeing the implications of broken homes, and same-sex households will only continue the downward trend. 
  • Remember to love. There are no special categories of sin or sinners. Romans 3:23 says, “For all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” Some sins have greater consequences, but we all need God’s grace and forgiveness equally. The truth of scripture should be spoken in authentic love. There is forgiveness and acceptance to any who trust Christ as Lord (Romans 5:8 & 8:1, II Corinthians 5:17).
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Defining Wealth

Posted on May 7, 2012 by cchrisholland

What does it mean to be wealthy? Many would say large financial resources, some would say it’s relative to others, and a few would consider the number of friends as a measurement. In Solomon’s monologue, he connects financial riches with anxiety, sleepless nights, and other things. So what does he suggests to focus on instead? Character.

Great character is a rare commodity and is defined by the attitude of the heart. Godly character determines our overall approach to life. In chapters 5 & 6, He gives us three specific areas.

 I. Our Attitude in Worship  

“1Walk prudently when you go to the house of God; and draw near to hear rather than to give the sacrifice of fools, for they do not know that they do evil. 2Do not be rash with your mouth, and let not your heart utter anything hastily before God. For God is in heaven and you on earth; therefore let your words be few.” Ecclesiastes 5:1-2 NKJV

Walking prudently or “guarding your steps” is the image of being purposeful. Our approach in worship shouldn’t be flippant or casual (v.1). God is still Holy, Sovereign and Awesome! The proper perspective demands humility and respect. We should: 

  • Talk less and listen more (v.2)
  • Pray from the heart without empty repetition (see also Matthew 6:5-15)
  • Not make foolish promises to God (v.2) 

II. Our Attitude in Action 

“…a fool’s voice is known by his many words. 4When you make a vow to God, do not delay to pay it; for He has no pleasure in fools. Pay what you have vowed. 5Better not to vow than to vow and not pay. Do not let your mouth cause your flesh to sin…” Ecclesiastes 5:3-6 

  • Be Diligent – The Bible instructs us not only to fulfill our commitments, but to do it timely. Following through on easy obligations is one thing, but the true measure is when it becomes tough. It’s easy now in our culture to “just walk away”, but God’s view hasn’t changed with modern laxity toward promises. As disciples of Christ, our “word” should matter, even if others’ doesn’t.
  • Count the Cost – The wise consider the long term effects of a decision. In Luke 14, Jesus compares following Him to building a tower and considering the total cost beforehand. Choices have consequences. Even though the Lord shows us tremendous grace through forgiveness, consequences can last a lifetime.

III. Our Attitude in Choosing Treasure 

“He who loves silver will not be satisfied with silver…” (5:10a) 

  • What we love – you can fill in the blank with any item or activity and it will ultimately be true: “He who loves __________ will not be satisfied with ____________…” – What do you treasure?
  • What we see as good – Chapter 6, verses 3-6 tell us a man could live 2,000 years, but if he doesn’t recognize the goodness of God all around him, his life was wasted. A simple rule of thumb is to ask this question, “Based on scripture, what does God value?” and then choose to value the same. – What do you treasure? 

Once again Solomon is encouraging us to look higher, think deeper, and love more than the world around us. Let’s review his reflection in Ecclesiastes 2:24-26:

24 “There is nothing better for man than to eat, drink, and enjoy his work. I have seen that even this is from God’s hand, because who can eat and who can enjoy life apart from Him? – HCSB 

Make the choice today to find your joy in the Lord. He’s provided all we need, plus so much more! (II Peter 1:3-4)

Series: “What’s the Point of Life Anyway?” – Lesson 2

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The Man Who had it All

Posted on May 2, 2012 by cchrisholland

Every few days I pass the Lottery counter at the grocery store. People are patiently waiting to hand over their hard earned money (or someone else’s) for the hope of happiness and the dream of having it all. So what comes with “it all”?

There is a man who actually did have it all, super-wealth, world-wide fame, adoring women, intellectual notoriety, and unbridled power. There was nothing left in the world’s treasure chest to be obtained. Sounds like bliss and fulfillment right? Not exactly. The man was Solomon, and he was unique. The Bible says in I Kings 3:12, God gave him wisdom like no person had before, or would have after him. He’s famous for wise sayings in Proverbs, but his commentary on life is in Ecclesiastes. So what were his thoughts, after enjoying “it all”.

He begins with “Meaningless! Meaningless! Everything is Meaningless!” Then goes on to detail acquiring or experiencing all life could give, but ended up feeling the same as a fool who dies with nothing. He declares it all to be a “chasing after the wind”. It’s an interesting word picture…basically chasing something unpredictable, elusive, and ever-changing. The key question is, “How does this help us in daily life?” Well, he declares 4 basic problems all of us grapple with (1:1 – 2:23). Warren Wiesbe outlines them this way: 

  • The Monotony of Life
  • The Vanity of Wisdom
  • The Futility of Wealth
  • The Certainty of Death

Let’s briefly consider the first one in this post; the monotony of life. He transitions with these words in chapter 2:

24 “There is nothing better for man than to eat, drink, and enjoy his work. I have seen that even this is from God’s hand, 25 because who can eat and who can enjoy life apart from Him?”– HCSB

So how do we “enjoy life” like he says? First, we must know Him as he says in verse 25. Who can enjoy life apart from Him? Knowing God through faith in Jesus is more than a good idea, it’s everything! It’s the starting point of seeing life from God’s perspective, and not our own. As followers of Christ, we’re to look for biblical precepts to guide our thinking. He advises us in chapter 3 to: 

I. Embrace God’s Order

“For everything there is a season, a time for every purpose under heaven.” (3:1)

God’s creation has order and rhythms to it. Planting & harvesting, gaining & losing, speaking & listening, they all have their place. He made us a central part of the created order. Not as a celestial mystery like misguided mystics teach, but purposely made to know Him. A life focused on God, is one: 

  • Acknowledging His right to change things as He chooses
  • Looking for and praying for His working
  • Asking for His help in dealing with change

II. Be Content

Life is a gift (3:13) and not to be squandered. The old “stop and smell the roses” phrase fits, because life truly is fleeting. Verse 11 says “He has made everything beautiful in its time”. If I’m not careful, I can speed right past a beautiful moment and completely miss the significance. One of my favorite parts of the day is morning coffee while the house is still asleep and quiet. I sit in our front room watching the morning begin and I listen. It’s amazing how a few moments of solitude with the Lord refreshes my soul, while He directs my thoughts to the daily blessings in front of me.

III. Look “Beyond the Sun”

At the beginning (Ch.1& 2) Solomon talks of things “under the sun”. Now he begins to move our attention beyond this life. Verse 15 of chapter 3 declares, “God requires an accounting”. He will open the books and see what’s there. What do we hope He finds? It’s not to see if I’m worthy of heaven, I’m not. Only Jesus’ sacrifice can justify me in that regard, but it’s measuring my obedience to Christ. Looking “beyond the sun” means fixing my eyes on Jesus (Heb. 12: 1-2), letting go of worldly trinkets, and pursuing goals with eternal value.

What are you doing today that has eternal significance?

Series: “What’s the Point of Life Anyway?” Lesson 1

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Jesus on Worry

Posted on April 24, 2012 by cchrisholland

What does the Bible say about worry? It actually says plenty, but here are a couple of quick thoughts. In wrapping up this study of Jesus’ questions, I noticed John 21:22 where He answers Peter’s pointed question concerning John:

“If I want him [John] to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow Me.” John 21:22 NIV

Basically, Jesus tells Peter, “Don’t worry about it, stay focused.” Then later He answers a question about the Kingdom in a similar fashion:

“It is not for you to know the times or seasons which the Father has put in his own authority.” Acts 1:7 NKJV

These statements, along with the “do not worry” section of the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew 6:25-34 paint a picture of how we should view worry. 

I. It’s not of God 

Jesus specifically tells us not to worry (actually several times). The tough part is acting on that truth. If you’re like me, you can’t just flip a switch, and never worry again, but Paul helps us out. In Philippians 4:6, we see:

“Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God.”

So instead of focusing on the circumstances, be proactive: 

  • Pray through the many things you’re thankful for
  • Honestly discuss with God your anxieties (He already knows anyway)
  • Ask for His help with your thought pattern and not just the situation 

Once this mode of prayer is set in motion, verse 7 promises “the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your heart and mind.” That’s a great trade. We give Him our worry and He gives us peace! 

II. Narrow Your Focus 

In the John passage, we see Peter distracted by questions regarding John, which illustrates a frequent source of our worries. We look around and begin the process of drawing conclusions from comparing our life to others. It’s not within my power to make life “fair”, and making a list of inequities only fuels more of the same. Think about it, how many things in life do we REALLY control? 

Webster describes control this way: 1. to regulate 2. to exercise authority over 

Even those of us with children, students, or employees under our “authority” only have a limited amount of control. Only God maintains ultimate authority. So as a follower of Christ, here are two things I take away from these verses: 

  • I need to quit trying to look over God’s shoulder – Even if I could see what He’s looking at, I probably wouldn’t understand the language or diagrams anyway! He has reserved certain work for Himself and assigned certain work to me. 
  • I need to relax – Acts 1:8 speaks of the gospel being carried around the world, but it completely hinges on the power of the Holy Spirit. The same is true in my daily walk. I must rely on the Holy Spirit’s lead and remember Jesus’ words: 

“Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.” John 14:27

Series: “The Questions of Jesus” – Conclusion

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When Life Causes Second Guessing

Posted on April 11, 2012 by cchrisholland

Ever asked the “Where’d I go wrong?” questions? Of course most of us have…it’s an old human habit. Sometimes it’s productive, but other times not. In Luke we see just such a conversation, however in this one Jesus shows up for an awesome teaching moment. Let’s look:

13Now behold, two of them were traveling that same day to a village called Emmaus, which was seven miles from Jerusalem. 14And they talked together of all these things which had happened. 15So it was, while they conversed and reasoned that Jesus Himself drew near and went with them. 16But their eyes were restrained, so that they did not know Him. 17And He said to them, “What kind of conversation is this that you have with one another as you walk and are sad?” 18Then the one whose name was Cleopas answered and said to Him, “Are You the only stranger in Jerusalem, and have You not known the things which happened there in these days?” 19And He said to them, “What things?” So they said to Him, “The things concerning Jesus of Nazareth, who was a Prophet mighty in deed and word before God and all the people, 20and how the chief priests and our rulers delivered Him to be condemned to death, and crucified Him. 21But we were hoping that it was He who was going to redeem Israel. Indeed, besides all this, today is the third day since these things happened. 22Yes, and certain women of our company, who arrived at the tomb early, astonished us. 23When they did not find His body, they came saying that they had also seen a vision of angels who said He was alive. 24And certain of those who were with us went to the tomb and found it just as the women had said; but Him they did not see.” – Luke 24:13-24 NKJV

I. Their Dilemma

They “talked and reasoned” trying to figure out what had just happened. Not only had there been dramatic events the previous week, but some disciples now were reporting visions of angels and Jesus’ body missing. What did it mean? What now? Those are natural questions to ask, and there are a couple of themes in their comments I can relate to. For example: 

  • “Our hopes may have been too high” – in verse 21 Cleopas explains that they really hoped Jesus was the One. Of course He was, but they didn’t see it…yet. How often do I “guard” my level of trust in the Lord, instead of simply taking Him at His word? Seeing proof and believing is good, but faith means holding on to His promises and trusting in the unseen (Heb. 11:1). 
  • “Maybe it’s time to move on” – I believe the two were genuine followers of Christ, but had difficulty reconciling His preaching versus recent events. They’d left Jerusalem feeling it all went wrong because Jesus didn’t deliver what they expected (physical political kingdom). He actually delivered far more, but it took time to see the connection. Anxiousness breeds carelessness. Relax, God is still in control. 

II. Jesus’ Answer 

After listening to Cleopas, Jesus responds:

25Then He said to them, “O foolish ones, and slow of heart to believe in all that the prophets have spoken!  26Ought not the Christ to have suffered these things and to enter into His glory?” 27And beginning at Moses and all the Prophets, He expounded to them in all the Scriptures the things concerning Himself.” –NKJV

Can you imagine listening to the King of Glory explain history? Wow! Patiently and systematically, He started at the beginning (“Moses” means his writings Gen-Deut.) and walked them through. I believe He still works the same way today (within the context of what He’s already revealed to us-the Bible). As He spoke, it produced several things:

  • Fire in the heart (v.32)
  • Hunger for more (v.29)
  • Clear understanding of circumstances (v.31) 

Practical Application: 

There are many overarching principles in scripture for daily living but we have to read it for the words to be integrated into our ethos. As believers, it’s easy to be distracted by various things, but a few strategic minutes can make a big difference in your day. Here’s a suggestion, try praying through these three truths daily: 

  • Acknowledge that God is sovereign over everything (Psalm 71)
  • Accept that He really, truly, specifically loves you (I John 4:7-11)
  • Agree that He always has your best interest at heart (Jeremiah 29:11) 

In other words, He loves us, wants the best for us, and is always in control…what else do we really need?

Series: “The Questions of Jesus” – Lesson XI

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